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Friend (F) of mine (M) wants to bring ex (who she wants to avoid) to our weekly get together.

2021.12.06 12:09 Basic_Albatross1246 Friend (F) of mine (M) wants to bring ex (who she wants to avoid) to our weekly get together.

Some backstory:
I got to know here trough her now ex-boyfriend (we studied together) and when the boyfriend went abroad for a year we met once a week to eat together (we were both home alone and it was nice just to have someone to often talk to face to face).
When her boyfriend returned we continued doing this with the 3 of us until Covid.
A few months ago they broke up and we picked up the habit again because she needed someone to talk to. When we are together she tells about the troubles she/they face in dividing everything (house, car,...) and how he is delaying everything so she has to stay with him for longer. In general the vibe is that she still wants to be friends (they have been together for 10 years), but that she is very annoyed with him.
This week she suddenly asks me if it is OK if he comes with us when we meet. Apparently he complained that he is lonely (he hasn't put any effort in his friends for the last 5 years, so there are not many left), and she took pity and invited him over.
To me this is very strange, I often got the impression that she was looking forward meeting because then she was away from him, and now she wants to invite him.
I do not have a lot of people skills, what do you think?
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2021.12.06 12:09 Deep_Quarter Need help on buying a gift card for newly wed couple from Berlin

My best friends are getting married this weekend and I want to present them a gift card they can use to decorate their new home with. Travel restrictions on flights from my country mean I am not able to make it to Berlin to anytime soon. What's a reputed local store I can get gift cards from (preferably online). Thanks for your help.
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2021.12.06 12:09 Puzzlepetticoat I don't know how to forgive you and find peace

Dear Mother.
My children are getting bigger now. They are 7, 9 and 11 and despite you living 20 minutes away, they wouldn't know you if you passed on the street.
I don't like it being this way, but the moment I became a mother, it was immediately clear how much you had failed us. I hate carrying this anger and resentment, I can't let go of it. I can't move on. My childhood is still a bleeding wound and so far from healing. It hurts that it feels necessary to protect myself and my children to not have you in our lives.
You wouldn't know that I have complex PTSD from my childhood. That it's rare a day passes without my having flashbacks from my first ever memory that trigger a panic attack. I hate that my first memory is one of strange men attacking our home, that led to us being uprooted and moved overnight. I hate that, at No time, did you think it necessary to explain what happened and why. So all my life I've been haunted by the lack of answers as to why my earliest memory is one of men violently forcing their way into our home.
I hate you for telling us afterwards that my sister was kidnapped. We didnt see her for 10 years. She was there and then she was gone. Her Dad stole her is what you told us, you didnt know where she was. I lost a sister amidst the horror of that day. In reality, her father just claimed custody. You knew, you didn't fight it and you never tried to even stay in touch. You let us grow up believing she was gone. How can I forgive that?
I hate you for leaving us with ANYONE who would care for us so you could go and party. I hate that one of those people was a known child sex offender living next door. I hate what happened to me on his watch and I hate YOU for how scared you made me about it. Screaming at me "he better not have fucking touched you!" when he was arrested again. Said in a way that made me think I was at fault and in trouble. So I never told the truth about what happened.
I hate the guilt I carry not knowing if other children were then harmed because you scared me away from speaking out.
I hate that I grew up being bullied because you never taught us self care. You never bathed us, we were riddled with nits and I wet the bed. I was never bathed and my bed never changed so I was very easy pickings for bullies. I stank, I was dirty... I was a child of severe neglect.
I hate that I was 13 years old when I decided my life goal was to get away from you, to never be like you. You have no idea that I can remember the day exactly from when I decided to make you a blueprint for what I did not want to be in life.
I'm happy and proud to say I broke the cycle... But I hate that my siblings couldn't. I'm the Mum to my kids that I wish I had and I'm so much better than you at it. I've protected them from you, because it's felt so necessary... But you never fought it. You've never asked to see them either.
But the anger and the confusion is just louder now than ever. I know I won't ever get the truth out of you about key incidences I need clarity and closure on. I certainly know you won't be open to accepting your errors and fixing them.
So I'm stuck in this limbo and I hate you for that too. My children not knowing who you are, having been cut off from their own family to protect them. I wish I could drive you to admit your wrongs, tell the truth and help me make peace with my childhood so we can move forward together. So my children can have more family. But I also know that if I try, and you refuse to be open (and you will), my mental well ring is going to suffer for the efforts.
So I sit here. In pain, in anger and resentment. I don't know how to heal and move on. Im carrying the weight around my neck because my past is like an obstacle course in the dark.
I don't know how to let go of the anger.
I deserved far better.
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2021.12.06 12:09 skapunkess Protest downtown

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2021.12.06 12:09 Nnamier Having issues loading to the start screen?

Is this happening to anyone else now? Suddenly when I hit play it chugs so hard it risks crashing the program, after about a minute it'll load the start screen - I have a very very beefy computer so I know it's not on my end.
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2021.12.06 12:09 Tsaul_Relative Ordered ZPAP M70!

The help I received in here and watching some reviews helped me avoid a near mistake purchase at a LGS of one of the “lesser” market options at least according to everything I’ve been seeing, so thank you! Now my SKS will have a young cousin to share ammo with, hopefully as long as all goes to plan with this online purchase, my first ever of this kind. Fingers crossed and don’t tell the wife!😂
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2021.12.06 12:09 Wide_Riot In the Christmas spirit

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2021.12.06 12:09 SgtSilock Thanks Apple for ruining my 8 hour flight

Downloaded a tonne of music, and none of it decided to work. The OFFLINE music that should just play the moment I hit play, didn’t. Instead it just stood there, 0:00, on every track. If I click another track, it didn’t even change the tracks name just remained stuck.
I restarted my phone several times, made so many attempts to close and restart the app and of course put my phone in aeroplane mode. Nothing.
Meanwhile, my partner who uses Spotify had no trouble what so ever. Clicked a song, and it played. Needless to say this bugged me. The moment I landed I downloaded Spotify and subbed, downloaded a bunch of music, all working flawlessly.
I love apple and I want to love Apple Music, but if you can’t get downloaded music to play when you’re offline, what chance do you have?
This is a rant but also a question, pleading to find out what the **** happened?! How did it just decide to not work.
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2021.12.06 12:09 trailer8k spider Gwen

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2021.12.06 12:09 goddesstyche01 The Christmas Charity: Chocolate Frog Hunt [Day 1]

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2021.12.06 12:09 Iceblood Feuerschwanz - Warriors of the World united (feat. Melissa Bonny, Saltatio Mortis, Thomas Winkler)

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2021.12.06 12:09 ARealFishFromAPond If you were a bird. What type of bird would you be and why?

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2021.12.06 12:09 danielrosehill Can somebody explain the role of the Israel Border Police?

I've always (as an oleh living in Israel) been somewhat confused by the role of the Border Police.
Their name implies that their responsibility involves patrolling Israel's borders. But they appear to have a much more extensive role.
I believe that their description, in English, is a gendermerie, which Wikipedia tells me means a military force with law enforcement duties and powers among a civilian population.
I guess some more specific questions to keep this focused:
1) Did the BP grow out of the IDF?
2) In cases where the BP is used for the purpose of (e.g.) arresting wanted terrorists in the West Bank .... why are they the ones doing this and not the IDF?
3) What is the working relationship between BP & IDF exactly, and between BP & Mishtarat Yisrael (Israel Police)?
Thanks!
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